rehab
Tonight, I went to the DivorceCare program at my church. This is the second week, and I’ve enjoyed it so far (as much as you can enjoy a recovery program). It is comforting to know that there are other people out there feeling as pitiful as I am. In fact, there are three girls I already knew that are in there with me.
They tell you that you aren’t allowed to date other people in the program for the duration of the 13 weeks. And just to seal the deal, they make sure you look as unattractive as possible by installing unflattering overhead lighting all over the building. At one point, I went into the bathroom, took a look in the mirror and nearly scared myself. They had somehow replaced my reflection with that of a meth addict. Well done, Watermark. No one is going to want any of this action.
What’s even better is that DivorceCare is held the same night as The Porch, which is the program for single young adults. Hehe. Talk about awkward. I want to walk up to them all wild-eyed, waving my bright blue DivorceCare workbook in their face and say “Beware, children! Heed my wisdom or this shall be your future!” But they’re so cute with their Uggs and their iPhones and their hopes and dreams, so I just let them be.
February 9th, 2010 at 11:27 pm
I’m sorry, I didn’t know what you’re going through, I just want to say you are an amazing woman and I admire you very, very much! Stay strong, creative and with this great sense of humor that stands out in your work, and personality! You are an awesome lady.
Hugs from your Mexican #1 fan
Mel
February 10th, 2010 at 9:51 am
Big hugs girlfriend. I doubt you looked like a meth addict though. I do wonder where churches come up with the names for their singles programs though. They are always so vague.
February 10th, 2010 at 1:51 pm
I am so sorry. Hugs hugs and more hugs. I agree with Mel. You are amazing.
February 10th, 2010 at 11:39 pm
Y’all are sweet and wonderful
February 11th, 2010 at 1:58 pm
I just wanted to say how sorry I am to hear this news. Not knowing any details, I would imagine that this is difficult to deal with. Divorce is never an easy thing, but I do remember you as being a strong woman, so all will be alright in the end. Your writing is great and I agree with Melissa; stay strong, creative and maintain your sense of humor.