Jennifer Plesko

Last Saturday, I turned 30. If you’re younger than 30, I guess that is old. After all, I remember when there was no internet or cell phones and children played outdoors. But in the grand scheme of things, it’s really not old. Especially in light of eternity. But maybe I feel older this time. Not just because it’s a milestone, but because I’ve learned more about life and about myself in the last year than I had in the previous 29.

I’ve learned that, if you have an issue with a friend or loved one, don’t ignore it and let it fester in resentment. Talk it out and fix it. Those relationships are too important to waste.

I’ve learned that, no matter what happens, you shouldn’t let yourself feel like a victim. It leaves you feeling sorry for yourself, and that will get you nowhere. Figure out what you’re supposed to learn from it and move forward.

I’ve learned that I may never live up to everyone’s expectations, especially my own, but I’m OK with that as long as I feel like I am where God wants me.

I’ve learned that you can plan your life as much you want, but ultimately you aren’t in charge. You’ll have setbacks, surprises and disappointments. That’s just life. Roll with it. You never know where it’ll take you.

I’ve learned that you can’t control other people’s actions, only your own. Just make sure you control your own.

I’ve learned that I am capable of so much more than I ever thought I was.

And, most importantly, I’ve learned that I still have so much to learn!